Victim

Being made a victim changes people. A victim is someone who is forced into a powerless position while someone else crosses their boundaries and demonstrates power over them. That is like a hammer blow on our soul. It gets a dent. If it repeats the soul starts to change its shape and bend, a pattern becomes visible that is the souls way to absorb those terrible blows.

It is „a pattern of thinking, feeling and acting based on a set of beliefs about the universe.This set of beliefs is a paradigm that defines our expectation for what we experience and what is possible. It defines our reality. It is like a map, laying out the geography of our world and showing us the various routes available to us through life.“ (Stephen Da Silva) --- harm, pain